Sorry I didn't writer sooner, but I didn't read blogs at all this week. Wow-- you were down and then picked yourself up. Sounds familiar this week! Honestly, not to sound too flaky, but I think there was some bad energy out there. Just hang in there and know YOU ARE NOT ALONE. And I, too, have decided to focus on NOW as much as possible. We can help each other out. See you tomorrow!

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Bravo! "And while I'm at it, let's add that looking forward (relationshipwise) isn't too great a move either. It's the NOW that matters."

I learned the same thing in the last week, too! By obsessing a bit over promised marriage proposal at a really bad time in both of our lives. That's an important thing to learn...
-Shanna
(A regular reader :))