Hi Cherry,
I ENJOY your videos tremendously. My concern today is: If it's either I ask a man out OR he asks me out, and I choose to be asked, will I be dealing with a controlling man who makes all the decsions? I'm ready for a real partnership.
Thank you for your gems of wisdom,

Hi Michele,
Thanks for your message. Great question. If a man asks you out, follow his lead to allow him to show you who he is. If he asks how you feel, you tell him. He won't be a controlling man who makes all the decisions if he cares about you and wants to please you. You simply guide him with your feelings and express your appreciation!